The Parable of the Loving Father

Luke 15:11-24

No matter home many times I read the parable of the Prodigal Son, I continue to get deeper insights into how this story impacts my life. Although it only takes up part of one chapter in the Gospels, I have probably read these words of Jesus more than any other. Why?

Initially I looked at this parable from the perspective of the Prodigal Son. I have had seasons of rebellion where I pursued my own desires and looked to find fulfillment through people or things. I looked for instant gratification and ignored God's promises of lasting gratification. I have also been in the place of the Older Son, wondering why my "good deeds" are not being rewarded in the appropriate time - or why others are being blessed more than I.

Yet when I recently re-read the parable I was struck by the heart and character of the father. "The father did not give to his sons Justice, but much more, he gave them GRACE."* The father:

• was willing to let go of his expectations for his son
• was willing to "fund" what he knew was a mistake in order for his son to experience long-term growth
• allowed his son to experience the full consequences of his actions
  
• valued his sons for who they were not what they accomplished
• love and acceptance was not based on performance or actions
• waited
  

I pray that as I wait for my Prodigals to return that I exhibit the heart and character of the father in the parable - which we know is representative of God's heart and character for us. I pray that I can wait with the assurance that no pain is wasted. I pray that I allow my Prodigals to live with the full consequences of their choices without trying to "rescue" them. I pray that I can love with open arms and without expectation. I pray that I can extend them the same grace that God has shown me.

*http://www.albatrus.org/english/potpourri/sermons/prodigal%27s_father.htm